Difference b/w girls and women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( i.e. don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.


Finally yesterday someone brought mi out...nelson! Thanks man..and he drove mi to my doorstep..
I seriously like being with him..his car so nice I feel so protected haha..
He not shuai..but got the charisma..hmm I think we better not cross the line..

Ok I shall list my list of wishes haha..thanks everyone!
(in order of sms)
1 Joe
2 Joy
3 Kelvin
4 Terrence
5 Angie (sweet la! She called mi from office.)
6 Jiemin
7 Raymond
8 Jess
9 Jun Ming
10 Huifen
11 Delia (she neva failed to sing mi a sms birthday song every yr) =)
12 Peishi (surprised!)
13 Laura (shocked!)
14 Loon (didn't expect him to remember)
15 Sebrina (she neva failed to send mi a sms every yr! Really sweet. Every yr bring a smile to mi.)
16 Adalene
17 Geraldine
18 Nelson
19 KaiJun
20 Geok fang
21 Bro (wah!!!! first time lo..call + sms..he grow up liao!!!)

21 people remembered mi. Ok la happy. Who supposed to wish mi but didnt? Irwin Liew!!!!
(caterpillar gang pls convey to him haha! =p)


Birthday! Birthday! (nothing to be excited about)
My programme for the day - hm, gym, office, hm.
Wah. Fun.
Lonely birthday. No present, no celebration.
Ok lor, also like that. (then why I grumble???? oopz sorry)

Hmm what other updates ar. I thought I got stuff to blog about then forgot. Sigh recently very short term memory.
1 Yesterday training until 11.30pm..Nelson Tan!!!
2 Bro don't wana bring mi go club lo. 2 persons..make it 1st time la.. (1st time I didn't reply his sms, cos he often did that to mi, I shall repay! wahahaha. The evil side of a scorpio. Don't mess with mi!!! Ha I'm timid de. =P)
3 Oh 1 more thing must say. Yesterday the co-broke agent played us out!! wth. Very angry 1 ler. Somemore he changed to earlier time and we had to rush out the documents and Jonathan had to take a cab. Today he better make it there punctually. Else I'm going to bite him!! wahaha


Yea! My new name is done!
So dearest peeps..my new chinese name is....JIA XUAN!
Lovely?
Hmm doesn't affect my JC/poly friends cos' they don't use my chinese name.
Those affected are relatives and sec friends.
Ray finds it so hard to accept. I guess it takes time.
So..those who are used to calling my chinese name..pls adapt to the new name soon.
Time to edit your hp contact. =)


1st roadshow today at amk blk 338.
Not fun at all lor.
Very hot, and so hard to do. (to mi)
Majority are old folks, don't take flyers.
Very few showed interest, and Martin still say roadshows are very effective.
The 2hrs crawled slowly. I dread the next session.

Spent some time with nelson, went with him to a closing in sengkang.
We talked so much in the car, and he is indeed different from what he is in the office.
The ride was smooth, was fantastic, and I got to know him alot more.
He's really a nice nice guy, can joke and get cheeky. Very nice to be with him.
Too bad he's married. Good guys are always taken la. Sad truth.

Ok, I saw how the closing of a rental is done. I still think not easy la, alot of things to say, to take note.
I'm afraid I might just be forgetful and missed out important details.


Argh ok I just need to complain.
I bought a dragonfruit juice just now and it cost $3.10.
All it consist of is half a dragonfruit + water + ice.
WAH LAO! If I bought that half a piece of dragonfruit to eat, it would cost $1.50.
Can you tell me why there's such a big difference in price?! Just because its in dilute liquid form?

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Thursday went for my 1st Monthly Agent Night.
Fun!
Everyone is very friendly la. And some very jokers de. Nice being with them.
2 agents shared their experiences with us. Very motivated.
1 of them have a second viewing for a 7.2 million bungalow. Wah lao commission 2%.
Tell me tell me...how to stay put with status quo?!

Ok I'm supposed to tell everyone I'm an agent now.
So I shall broadcast it here.
Don't worry I won't harrass you. Just remember me if you have lobang for buying/selling/rental. =)


Suddenly I realised I have friends who look like local celebrities.
One look like Pierre Png.
One look like Vincent Ng.
One look like Adam Chen.
Wah. I got shuai friends ler.
Guess I'm in love with which 1 haha.


Ah! JULIAN HEE!!!!!! (sorry for being hua chi) He just damn shuai can.
He'll be going for The Mission 4 show this sunday!
I wana go support him! (though I don't have nails)
http://ch8.mediacorptv.com/shows/variety/view/900/1/.html
I wana take pic with him! Omg I think I'll just melt if I saw him.
Who wana go with mi? But must be prepared for the long wait and my......hua chi.


I really don't like last min things.
Last week no news. So I didn't assume there's any this week.
So I planned my day.
Then came the sms, tmr meet................
Stunned.
I'm not those who can have a change of plans steadily. Unless it was within what I want.
Not this.
Then how? Can I pretend nothing happen? Can I pretend I didn't receive the news on time?
I know its so bad of me. But she's last min. And I don't want to change my plans.
Call me inflexible.
How.............


Yesterday's itinery:
home - raffles place - home.
home - woodlands - yew tee - bukit batok - jurong east - raffles place - dhoby ghaut - raffles place - home.
Wah lao.
A typical youngster. But not me.

Met steven. I shall talk bad abt him here! He won't see it. Wahaha.
This era got someone no msn de ler! And its a 21 years old youngster. (ah pek)
Think we won't meet again. He have alot of comments on my attire. (which I thought was ok)
And I just feel like punching him. I learnt kick boxing oso la, though he instructor, I can still fight with him!
Bleah. (to guang: see, these are the ppl I boo. =p)

Had a great time with fen. My baby. Hahahahahaha! =p
I like her, she like me. (I think so)


Everything is predestinated.
When you didn't expect to happen, it happen.
Quite sad.
They were so compatible. I like them.
Still, we just have to accept isn't it.
Nevertheless I still love you sis! =)

(p/s: You'll see me here quite often, as I have no one to talk to and I need to talk. Moreover everyday at home.)


Jay chou's new song so funny la!!
I practically laughed my head off!!


Still hating myself. Hate. Hate. Hate.
I'm still very depressed.


Happy birthday jasmine!
Love you lotz!


My hair my hair my hair!! (ji dong)
Gone. Alot. Alot.
Don't like the awful tail. So cut!
And now its so short!!
I want my long hair.
Sob.

My name..my name..my name..
I'm gona change my name.
Excited. Full of anticipation.
We shall wait for the outcome.
Hope I'll have a nice name!
And hopefully a better life.
Bless me.


Woo~ Last day of work.
Will definitely miss the children. NOT the staff. Nor the boss.
The 2nd experience.
Am I just suay? How come all work doesn't go smoothly. I don't want this for life.

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Horrible girls.
She go around telling YOUR secret. To think you trusted her. What the shit. And then got you into shit trouble. Plus the 'losing face'.
Then she said, 'Tell you something. Don't tell others, cos I neva tell. I want to divorce my husband le.'
And later you found out, she said the same thing to everyone. Everyone knew this, and she told everyone not to tell others.
!@#$%^&*()
She came to tell you how the boss scolded 1 of the staff.
'She got scolded so badly, boss scold her who do you think you are, I pay you $7/hr and when you want to leave you want immediate.'
Can believe her after the above experiences? So I went to clarify with the staff, quote her the above exact sentence, she said 'no ar, she never say this.'
SEE?! Can't believe this kinda person exist! And its not those middle aged big-mouthed gossipy aunties. A pure gentle looking 20+ lady.
I just shook my head. Totally. I will not befriend this kinda person.

Not as bad as the previous one. But I just don't like it la. The way she handle things, the way she talk, the way she chooses who she wana talk, to think we grew up together and were once very close. ONCE.
If you have the other half, you will surely recognise him/her right. When you go dating, would you say 'oh going out with friend.'
Maybe you'll say that to avoid questions.


LALALALALA~
Ok I don't know what I'm feeling now.

Been taking quite a number of cabs recently.
Put aside the money spent. Just wana share the different kinds of uncles I met. Quite erm. Funny?

1 Most of the times I took from Raffles Place to Punggol. YA VERY FAR. YES VERY EXPENSIVE. Cos I lazy to get out of the house to the gym and this were the consequences. Anyway, this uncle. The usual route is by CTE, TPE. And entrance to CTE is from chinatown, which is the nearest. HE drove the other way, I was puzzled. But I thought maybe there was another route, this road idiot do not know. So happily we drove. And the surroundings got 'strange-er' and 'strange-er'. Then, I saw dhoby ghaut. And pass through the ERP! Peep! Wah lao!
Me: Uncle, where are we? I thought CTE from the chinatown there?
Uncle: Er. Em. Eh. From here also can. I cut through CTE from here, only need to go through 1 tunnel. From chinatown need to go through 3 tunnels.
Me: OK.
Actually wanted to take down plate number and complain. Uncle thought I 'small girl' don't know route sia, go 1 big round 'eat' my money. But. Forgot la! And wanted to refuse to pay the ERP charges, since this was not the 'by default' route and I guess he can't do anything if I don't want pay. But. Late la, no time to argue with him.
Ok case closed.

2 Hmm this uncle. Extremely, overwhelming polite!! He'll say thank you for every sentence he got you to say!
Me: Uncle, punggol. From chinatown CTE. (lesson learnt from previous experience. Must say exact route!)
Uncle: Ok. Xie xie. Aircon can? (wow!)
Driving on..............
Uncle: 1st exit or 2nd exit?
Me: 2nd exit. Ok Xie xie, dui bu qi ar.
Reaching....
Me: Uncle, in front turn right.
Uncle: Ok, xie xie.
Me: Uncle, turn right again.
Uncle: Ok, xie xie. Dui bu qi ar.
See! He apologise even when I told him the directions. I guess he felt bad, but he don't know the place mah. Make mi quite paiseh ler, feel like saying 'oh bu yong jing, bu yong jing'. But if I said this everytime he said like very funny.
Very nice experience to travel with this kinda uncle. Don't you think so? If only we met such uncles in a quarter of our cab experiences.

3 Ok. I'm going home in a cab.
Scene: From entrance to carpark to abt 300m shelter up ahead.
Maybe my destination was near (ie.fares quite cheap), for the 300m the uncle drove so SLOWLY I think bicycle should be able to win the race la. And the metre jumped another 10cents. WTH!
Not that 10cents is alot of money la. But taking in account how much I have spent on cabs already, I think 10cents must save also right. And in this case the 10cents is not necessary at all!

(Wah the first time I spent so long in an entry ler. And not my style to type 'essay'. Maybe just wana share the experiences. And don't feel like (or can't) sleep yet ler.)
Boo.

Her

Altimate moodswing cum stubborn ger
Age: Turning old
Love my parents.
Love children.
Love swimming.
Love to teach.
Love dancing.
Pessimistic.
Escape-ist.

My recipe

How to make a winnie

Ingredients: 5 parts jealousy 3 parts crazyiness 1 part empathy

Method: Add to a cocktail shaker and mix vigorously. Serve with a slice of lustfulness and a pinch of salt. Yum!